In an extraordinary week,
both the Catholic Church and Hillsong appeared to be making progress re their
attitude, if not their beliefs, about LGBT people.
It's a dance. Two steps
forward one back.
This is not an uncommon
process. Some of you might remember the farce
with World Vision earlier this year. The seismic shift in tone was initially incredibly refreshing but then conservatives, feeling threatened, had to flex their muscle. Sadly the march to progress is never a straight line.
Dragging an entrenched
religious belief systems into the
realities of the 21st century is like trying to turn a huge ocean container
ship. No one moves from anti-gay to gay affirming in one step. There is
actually a process of seven steps.
Some denominations have
taken this journey and are at the final stage in the process which is advocacy.
Some are stuck in stage one.
As I said to a megachurch
pastor a couple of years ago "The question is not if you will
change but when
will you change"
As we have seen with other
societal consciousness shifts in equality, such as the right for women to vote
or equal rights for people of colour, once the question is asked, the course is
set for an inevitable outcome.
The world has changed. Gay
and lesbian people exist. Some have a Christian faith and many have created
families. The ideal of one man, one woman together for life is the exception
not the rule in our world of modern families and never will be again.
But if churches don't face the
realities of life in the 21st century they will slip off
the horizon of irrelevancy and The
Gulf Factor I wrote about concerning the closure of Exodus will come
What many church leaders
fail to realise is that when they backflip because of a conservative backlash
it has tragic consequences. The hopes of LGBT people are initially raised for themselves and that future generations will not suffer as they have. Then
the step backward becomes another kick in the guts to LGBT people who've experienced abuse and are still living with wounds inflicted by the church and Christians. It hurts deeply. It creates a bigger
gulf, turns more people away and sets the conversation backwards. To say
nothing of the impact on those who love and support their LGBT friends and
This week, once again, has
been a clear example of why Ambassadors & Bridge Builders International church
consultancy work is so vital.
© Anthony Venn-Brown is the co-founder and former leader of Freedom2b, Australia’s largest network of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) people from Christian backgrounds. He is also an educator and consultant on LGBT/faith issues and leader in deconstructing the ‘ex-gay’ myth. Anthony’s autobiography 'A Life of Unlearning', details his journey from married, high profile preacher in Australia’s mega-churches to living as an openly gay man. Anthony has been twice voted ‘One of the 25 Most Influential Gay and Lesbian Australians’ (2007 & 2009) and was one of four finalists for the 2011 ACON Community Hero Award. He is also the founder and CEO of Ambassadors & Bridge Builders International.
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